Family Dollar complaint: Loading paypal card

I went in to load a total of $240 on my paypal. The cashier accidentally typed in $440 and loaded that. Since there is no way to refund what turned out to be a 5 minute stop turned into over 30 minutes. I told the manager I could run over to the bank and bring back the $200 but NO I could not leave the store with the card. So I had a total of $170 cash on me so we did that. BUT then I had to buy something to pull $25 off. The main manger put in the other $5. BUT because I then had to go to the bank and pull the $200 off for CASH I am out a total of $6.87 (.05 I never got back in change from my original $240 3.95 charge (I gave the clerk $244). Then I had to purchase a candy bar to even make a withdrawal so $1.50 for the candy and then $1.25 cash withdrawal fee. Then to replace my cash on hand I went to the bank and was charged $3.95.
On top of this I was on the way to pick my pre-k granddaughter from school and was late doing that and by the time I go there she was crying that I forgot her.